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  • Photo Update

    YES, I realize it's been awhile. Getting photos on here is just not as easy as putting them on facebook. So.. anyway, here you go! Enjoy.

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    Hallie's 3rd birthday party. Very pink!
       

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    Daddy and Mr. T going quading, which is one of
    Trister's absolute FAVORITE things to do. EVER.

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    Hallie in pink. Shocking, I know. ;)

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    Will (in his very-cool brand-new Bobcats soccer hoodie [that he wore
    for like a week straight]) and Hallie playing on Gary's tractors at the garage.

    TRISTAN LIKES TO:
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    pick his nose

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    stomp in puddles

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    get bored with stomping in puddles and trek off

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    come back looking very put out that I am following him

    Tristan is certainly ALL BOY. He would absolutely love to spend
    every waking moment outside, in puddles, waving sticks,
    stomping on slugs and squishing caterpillars. I have had to pry several
    gypsy moth caterpillars out of his fat little hands already! Yuck! Of
    corse he just laughs and runs off to find something else to get in to. :)

  • Summer!

    I think summer is finally here! We've been swimming in the lake twice already, and we had kabobs and corn on the grill last night.  YUM.

    My life is getting so busy, between all the house decisions, working for my dad, and of course, my life here at home.

    Will is going to be going to an outdoor kids' camp for a week in June, and he is VERY excited. I also signed him up for soccer in the fall. He runs sprints around the house, "practicing" to be the fastest runner on his team.

    Dan's entire family is coming up to visit over July 4th. I CANNOT WAIIIIIT!!!! It is going to be such a FUN week. I can't wait to spend time with everyone and have all the cousins (10 age 6 & under) play and make more memories together.

    Yay for summer!

                                 

  • Sadness

    Yesterday we attended a funeral for some friends whose beautiful 5-year-old daughter was killed in a tragic accident four days ago.

    At the service, we sang "Blessed be the Name of the Lord" ... I was completely choked up and couldn't even sing.

    So sad; words can't even go there.

    "You give and take away
    You give and take away
    My heart will choose to say
    Lord, blessed be your name."

    She's safe in the arms of Jesus.

  • So...

    the trip went really well. Everyone stayed healthy and the kids did amazingly well on the five plane rides (first Philly-->Miami-->Managua, then Managua-->Panama City, Panama-->San Juan, Costa Rica a few days later, and then finally San Juan-->Newark.) We brought along our little portable DVD player (that Dan picked up in China a few years ago for like $30) and it was really a lifesaver. (You can see in one of the pics in the link posted below that Emily has 5 kids in her row all watching a movie on it!)

    Anyway, Nicaragua was great. Our friends there have 4 older kids and then 6 little Nicaraguan adopted kids. One of the older girls is married and living in Nica w/ her hubby and kids. Their daughter Aliyah is just about Hallie's age, and the two girls had such a fun time together. It was so cute! (Hallie told me later, "Mommy, now I have TWO friends! Abby Crandall [her cousin] and Aliyah!") While in Nica we painted some rooms at an orphanage (quite the experience!) and did craft projects with kids who attend a school in Managua's city dump. We also got to just chill and hang out with our friends-- swimming, playing at the beach, playing games (at night after the kids were in bed) and talking, talking, talking. It was nice for me to have another young mom who is dealing with the same issues I am to hang out with during those inevitable "I can't go anywhere/do anything because of the kids"times, when everyone else was splitting to go see a movie or go surfing or whatever. Their older kids and our older kids all get along so well that we often joke that two of us need to get married so our families can stay so close forever. :)

    Will and Nathan spent every waking moment in Nicaragua scrounging for and collecting.... coconuts. They had stashes of them all over our friends' property, and immediately disappeared after meals to find more or relocate their existing piles. It was really hilarious. They also collected limes and oranges, and could often be heard asking for help reaching one that was on a branch just out of reach. They were extremely conspiratorial about it, too. Once I overheard Will talking to Nathan, saying, "Nathan, we need to find nails, wood, a sail and a motor." When I asked him what all that was needed for, I was told it was for the boat they were building to carry their coconuts in. :) The weather was HOT, but we all got used to it fairly quickly, and thankfully, we had an a/c unit in our room to make sleeping a little more bearable. With the weather so warm year-round, the indoors and outdoors are basically exchangeable. We ate outside at every meal, and wandered in and out as if no doors existed. It's such a great way to live! I loved that lack of separation between indoors and out-- like the whole outdoors is your living room.

    We left Nica after 4 days to head to Costa Rica for some family R&R. Most of the pictures I posted are from CR, actually. It was a great, relaxing time. We stayed at this amazing place, owned and run by friends of my family. It was so beautiful and lush and green and rainforestty... I couldn't keep from gaping at all the gorgeous scenery! The world is truly so diverse and so amazing!!!

    We left CR after 3 days and headed back (on a non-stop flight!) to the US. My favorite part of any overseas trip (and yes, I know this is silly) is when you get back to the US, and you've gone through immigration, and you are at that last hurdle before you're home free: customs. I always pick the kids up and explain what's happening as they watch the custom's agent check their paperwork, scan their passport, stamp it twice, etc. And I love it when, after the last stamp has been made and the passports handed back, the customs guy smiles and says, "Welcome back, guys. You're home." I love my country, but I don't often think of what it means to live here. How much would someone give to be in my shoes? To be able to walk through customs as a fully-privileged American citizen, and hear "Welcome home, guys".... well..... it's just really, really great, and maybe, it's just one of those things you can't appreciate until you've been there.

    So. That's about it. There is so much more I could say about the trip itself, what we did, the people we saw... but I just don't have time. In the three days since we've been home, I've been thinking of posting here, but I just have been so busy. The usual: cleaning, laundry (6 loads on Monday!) kids, trying to prioritize, groceries, making app'ts.... and honestly, I think it comes down to that. I only have so much time, and it's all about priorities-- what is my time best spent on? And as much as I love writing, xanga is not one of the top contenders for "best spent time" award around here. So I find myself posting less, because I really feel like my time is best spent somewhere else. Or because, despite my best intentions to get on here, I just don't.

    So! That's a recap. And now life goes on, crazy busy as always, and I'm off trying to keep one step ahead of these three mud-puddle-stomping kids of mine!!! :) (That actually has been a favorite activity as of late...)

  • The Trip

    http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=21562&l=484b4&id=502903865

    The above link is for some pics of the trip I have on facebook.

    I'll write more later. :)

  • Nicaragua

    Tomorrow we head for Philly at 7:30 for our flight to Miami and then on to Managua. We have all five (FIVE? when did that happen?) passports packed and I have packed and repacked our three suitcases and backpack several times. I am not sure what the internet situation will be down there, but if we have anything, I"ll try to post. And of course, pictures when we return! I am actually really excited about going. All my frenetic activity is about done-- my ginormous computerized packing list has been whittled down over the past 3 days to a mere four items.

    So. That's it.

    Really, I just hope my kids don't get sick. I think everything else I can handle! :)

    Nicaragua, here we come!

  • I am...

    ~ drinking my fabulous iced tea. :) Yum.

    ~ playing Scrabulous with my fabulous cousin. Not yum, but super fun and great competition, which I love. :)

    ~ leaving for Nicaragua in 5 days. For 9 days. With the kids (and Dan.) Let us all hope and pray that this trip is actually a good experience for the kids (like Dan and I hoped it would be when we discussed it) and not a royal disaster. Because we all know it could go either way!!!

    ~ avoiding the dishes and laundry that are calling my name.

    ~ reading Three Cups of Tea and Captivating. First one is good, but the writing style is kind of annoying. Second is amazing. Like, really.

    ~ happy that my sister is home from college! I can't believe she's done her freshman year! I am getting old. *sigh*

    ~ going to make myself go do something useful now. :)

  • I Love:

    Juno (My Van.) I have a dark blue Honda Odyssey named Juno. I know I have said this before, but I absolutely love it. (And, by the way, "it" is a "she". :) ) When we went from two kids to three, we made the (dreaded) jump to a mini-van. I was inwardly (and probabaly outwardly, too) grimacing, thinking, "oh, great, now I'm an official mini-van mom... that's just great..." But I have NO regrets. I love my van so so much. I love the color, I love the style, I love the room, I love the gas mileage, I love the sunroof.... Okay, enough on that.

    My Books. Ever since I was... 14? 15? I have had a list of favorite books:

    Christy by C Marshall
    Mrs. Mike by B & N Freedman
    Jane of Lantern Hill by L M Montgomery
    Every Perfect Gift by J Nye

    I still have my tattered, original copies of each of these. Christy is coverless, held together with tape. When I was younger, these books accompanied me everywhere I went. Nicaragua, family road trips, Romania, India, summer camp, camping, you name it. If I was away from home for more than an overnight, these books came along. I remember someone in Nicaragua watching me unpack my books and stack them on the table next to my bed, and asking, "Why bring books you've already read? Why not something new?" I'm sure by then I had read them all dozens of times, but I replied something like "Well, I can open any one of these and be completely lost in a storyline I already know I love." I haven't read them much in recent years, but they still hold a special place in my heart. I think of them from time to time and remember how much I loved these books and how often I used to re-read them. There are plenty of other authors and books that I love now, but these are special to me.

    Tea. I have tried for years now to convert to a coffee drinker... I mean, isn't coffee so much more in than tea? Plus, Starbucks does have some pretty yummy concoctions... At any rate, I have officially given up on coffee (at least at home) and have reverted to my favorite from my childhood travels. My mom got me this adorable glass tea pot last year, one that brews loose-leaf tea, which, well, if you're going to drink tea, you just have to try. It's so much better. I have distinct memories of being in London and having an afternoon cup of tea, complete with (what else?) sugar cubes and cream, and thinking that it was absolute perfection. This year, I brewed my own tea all winter, in flavors like Dark Chocolate Raspberry, White Jasmine and (my perennial favorite) English Breakfast. Now that it's getting warmer out, I've switched to making iced tea by the quart. My latest concoction was great, made with a quart-size tea bag of decaf black tea, with a cranberry-pomegranate green tea bag thrown in for flavor. Delicious, cheap and easy (that is, right up my alley. :) )

    Ordering Pizza For Dinner. Now I don't have to cook. What could be better? ;)

  • Toes

    For the past... I don't know.... 7? 8? years, I have kept my toenails painted. Mostly some variant shade of pink or red, but occasionally I go for a bright purple, blue or green. (Gotta mix it up, ya know. ;) ) But there was never a time (that I can remember) for years when my toenails weren't painted. Anyway, when we were in Florida last fall, my sister and I went to get pedicures together. And in the months following, the paint (of course) wore of, and somehow I just never got around to repainting them. I've gone several months now with bare toes, and after my initial dislike of them, they slowly grew on me. My disdain/digust began to be replaced with a genuine like for my bare toes. Yesterday I put a coat of very pale peach -- almost nude--  (called Tutti Frutti Tonga, ironically enough) on, and ever since, I've been staring at my toes. So shiny! So pretty! And this is certainly one of the tamest colors I've ever used. It's amazing how time can change your perspective. :) I may never go back to crazy bright colors again. But who knows... come summer, I may be looking for a change once again. :)

    And this is probably one of the more inane posts I've ever written. I have no idea what inspired me to write it.

  • Empty House

    Dan left for St. Louis today on business. Seeing as it was in St. Louis, we decided awhile back to send Will along to spend the weekend with Pop and Mima. So they left earlier today, Will wearing his Thomas backback (neatly packed with snacks, books, and a bag of Legos), pulling his little tiger suitcase on wheels behind him. He turned around and called, "'bye mommy!" at least 5 or 6 times during the trek from the house to the car. Such a very dear boy-- and suddenly, so grown up. Waving bye to me and pulling his own suitcase... just so very cute and grown up and ... where did the time go from when he was a fat little baby with the corkscrew curls and the gappy-toothed smile? *sigh* Dan texted me from the airport, and said that they were having a great time together. I'm very glad for them. Will absolutely adores spending one-on-one time with either of us, so I'm so glad they're getting this time together.

    But, that means Hallie and Tristan and I are here by ourselves, and with Tristan in bed, suddenly the house seems very empty. There isn't a lot of stuff backed up for me to do, so I'm sitting here typing and watching Hallie arranging her stroller and accessories and singing to herself. My mom gave her a bag of high-heeled dress up play shoes for her birthday, and tonight while parading around in them, she paused to tell me, "Mama, Grandma game me these shoes. I love high heels." before she minced off again. She is a very cute little blonde girl. Having her here to myself is something different. She asks me all the questions she usually asks Will, and she tries all her goofy, middle-child "I'm trying to make you laugh" tricks on me too.

    I found out today that I am getting all my wisdom teeth out next month. ('Nuff said.) I already have a scrip for amoxicillin and vicodin from the doc. Maybe I should get them filled ahead of time (ha, ha.)

    I'm off to read to Hallie for awhile before bed. Having her all to myself is a rare treat, and I want to appreciate every little minute of it.

    ****edit****
    Hallie's in bed, and I have decided that I will: 1. take a hot shower, and 2. hop into my fresh and clean bed with my cozy flannel jammies and read my new Better Homes & Gardens mag.

    Sometimes it's nice to have the house to yourself. :)